Tuesday, May 22

Keeping A Relationship

Keeping a Relationship

It's best to wait for the one you want ...... than settle for the oneavailable.

Best to wait for the one you love than one who's around.

Best to wait for the right one because life's too short to be wasted on just someone.


An African proverb state,


"Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one
eye."



Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.


Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.


Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, his or her flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.


If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.


You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.


You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.

Neither one of you is perfect, but are you perfect for each other?


Do you bring out the best in each other?


Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship?


Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her.


You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.


If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life" you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.


Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.


Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.


What keeps a relationship strong?

* communication

* intimacy

* a sense of humor

* sharing household tasks

* some getaway time without business or children

* daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note)

* sharing common goals and interests

* giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure

* giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment

* asking God to be the center of your relationship

If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty and pain replace the passion.



"As long as we have memories, yesterday remains. As long as we have hope,
tomorrow awaits. As long as we have friendship, today is beautiful."



Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person.


the day i almost blew my plastic at BODY SHOP

body shop IS on sale... from 18 May to 10 June
me being a Body Shop nut... i went gila! heheh
i got to know about the sale by chance
i happened to go to KLCC suring lunch last friday...
then lalu lah depan Body Shop
mak aihh... the queue to pay was so long tht is was coming out from the shop

since my plastics (i.e. credit card) was NOT on hand... so i had to suck it in
and LALU je... damn it was difficult... but then.. with the amount in the shop
boleh pengsan k...

but i got my must-have-juice-if-i-go-to-klcc juice from JuiceWorks..
i was a happy camper until... i went back to the office
went to my colleague's place... and saw a Body Shop beg
apelagi... saya serbu ... i mean looked and asked... "u beli ape?"
and she answered... "byk benda!... barang semua murah gile... 70% off"
and at that instant i vowed that i will go to the Body Shop sale



and i did... 3 times! hehehe...

i am now a proud owner of

- pink grapefruit body scrub
- peppermint foot scrub
- all in one base No.04
- blusher No.4
- white musk too eau da parfum
- warming mineral mask
- liquid eyeliner in brown
- the toe separater thing
- glove body scrub


it may not be much... but its enuff for me for now...
im not holding my credit card so the only shopping is if i pay by cash
but... since the sale is still on until 10 june...
huhu.. mane tau bonus masuk end of this month... ahahahah *evil laugh*
i can go shopping summore! woo hoo!!!


peace y'all

Thursday, May 17

my cat... coco.. the drama queen


she was sleeping with her paw over her face
so COMEL!!!
my mom brought her to vet
to get a jab
after that she was all lethargic and lembik
doctor said
she was a
Drama Queen

Tuesday, May 15

more photos

its me

Mr. Bf

me... at lily chalet

my foot steps

i love u too

cantik kan?

perasan lawa! woo hoo!!

snorkelhollics

our feet

reflection

us at perhentian

blerggghhhhh

im bitter...
i should go for a detox
i wanna go for a facial
i wanna go for reflexology
i wanna go for body massage

how do u tell that person that you want them to go without saying those exact words...?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

HAPPY 18TH BIRTHDAY
TO
KHAIRA
shit... my sister dah besar...
does it mean im old...
HAH!! i dont think so!!

Monday, May 14

51 things... after lunch

The 51 things
1. Your gender:
very female

2. Single?
not really

3. Want to be?
better?

4. Age?
26

5. Age you wish you were:
18

6. The color of your eyes:
very dark brown

7. Yourself:
sawo matang

8. Your Hair:
black... am gonna colour it soon!

9. Your Favorite Item:
my handphone

10. Your Favorite Drink:
water berry from JuiceIt

11. The Room You Are In:
office

12. Your Pets:
coco.. my cat!

13. What you want to be in Ten Years:
happy

14. What You're Not:
shy

15. One of Your Wish list Items:
a digital camera!

16. The Last Thing You Did:
ate chicken cheese croissant from Delifrance

17. Your Favorite Book:
any medical fiction

18. The Last Thing You Ate:
chicken cheese croissant

19. Your Life:
im blessed!

20. Your Mood:
okay

21. Favorite color:
green

22. My lover is:
bagak

23. I'm listening to:
ppl talking in the office

24. Maybe I should:
start working

25. I love:
him and family and my girls

26. My best friends are:
few

27. I don't understand:
some men

28. I miss:
Mr. Bf

29. A lot of people say:
im loud

30. The meaning of my name:
some flower somewhere

31. Love is:
good to have

32. Read the newspaper:
erm... this morning... just the headlines

33. Take walks in the rain:
with Mr. Bf... anytime

34. Drive:
not much in the past year

35. Like to drive fast?
heheh... when im alone

36. Been out of the country:
not recently

37. Been in love:
am NOW

38. Ran away from home:
no... -_-

39. Been on stage:
last thursday

40. Judged other people by their clothing:
sometimes

41. Are you trendy?
i would like to think that i am... some may not agree

42. Something that happened to you in 1995?
started sekolah menengah

43. Last thing you said aloud?
"okay.. im going now. bye"

44. What colour is your toothbrush?
pink

45. Last thing you bought?
chicken cheese croissant and mini chocolate pastries from Delifrance

46. Best ice cream flavour?
chocolate from Baskin Robbins

47. Last person you hugged?
Mr. Bf

48. Do you talk a lot?
yes...

49. Is laughter the best medicine?
yes IT IS!

50. Do you prefer giving smiles or getting them?
giving

51. Do you admit when are wrong?
sometimes... heheh

perhentian part 1


























































some scenic view taken by Mr Bf...

Thursday, May 10

gym day!

my sister got into UiTM... melaka...
going end of June..
heheh... sure die seronok kan... away from parents and evil sister yg suka pester dia
i pun suka sikitlah... i get the room to myself... woo hoo!
tapikan... i wont have anyone to suruh - suruh already...
oh well... im pretty she'll be coming back every weekend

Mr Bf passed his psychomotor test... woohoo!
i am SOOOO proud of you hunny!

and i weighed myself 2 days ago...
i lost 2 kgs of the 7 put on... so it seems to me
gym IS working...
more running for me then...

Tuesday, May 8

love... love... love

i just got this today... damn server so lembab!

but i think its the comel-est thing ever...

i love you too hunny!

Monday, May 7

oh no... im home

im back....!!!! since week actually... but malas nak update
im a happy happy "gelap" girl....

took lots of fishies pictures...
swam with fishies...
got to eat guiltlessly...
walked by the beach under the hot sun
under the moonlight... holding Mr. Bf's hands.. (aahhh... so romantic...)
swam in the sea...
Mr. Bf took lots of pictures of .... ME! heheh
saw many cute kwai lows... handsome you!

i had fun... but its back to work now... with another holiday in mind... heheh

on another note:
the weather has been super hot lately kan...
i mean the heat ot 'bahang' is SO unbearable lately...
i even have the fan on in the office
when on normal circumstances... i'll be complaining coz its too cold
i find it hard to sleep at night.. (saya takde air-con k..)

y eh? anyone can tell me... global warming at its peak...?
i read sumwhere... i cant remember where that the world is gonna be a WHOLE LOT warmer by year 2020 at the rate the artic (or was antartic) is melting...

scary stuff k... but what are WE doing???