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will i see you there?

i hope so!

new home mebbe...

i'll be writing elsewhere now...

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cioa!!

dah lame tak update kan... i've been busy with work.. time is a luxury nowadays. i wished i had more time. even my weekends are filled! both saturdays and sundays.. but thankfully this weekend i'll have saturday kinda free. i just need to go the tailors and that's it.. i can rest the whole day and maybe do a little bit of laundry. my sister is not coming back so i ahve the room to myself.. ive got to do MAJOR clean-up, come to think of it now... darn!! sunday is competition day for Mr. Fiance.. photography competition...

anyhow... like is i said.. time is a luxury that i don't have.. and when i do have, i SLEEP. the only logical thing to do!

so bye!

had my birthday 2 days ago! 1st august...

birthday wishes goes to didie and azrin... the 3 of us share the same birthday! huhuh

anyways... the birthday "celebration" started on the 31st july. we went out for dinner at The Apartment, The Curve. the food was alright. i especially like the mushroom starter... sedap gile but then again im a fan of mushrooms.. then i had cod fish which was just so-so. my mum made better cod fish lauk. Mr.F had chicken which was nice. then we had their chocolate mousse. oklah... it was almost 11pm when we finished everything and i was dead sleepy... and really wanted to go home. i slept late the night before reading harry potter yg tak habis2 since sunday night... uurrggghhhh.... anyways... Mr.F was complaining but he relented, so we balik rumah... yay! bbuutttt........ he had to take the long way back and then dah sampai rumah, he made another turn... being so sleepy i din argue.. finally, he parked the car... i was about to get out when he said... "tunggu, tunggu!" i pun tunggulah... then he brought a cake! actually it was brownies from secret recipe... so comel! he stuck the candle in and lit it up gave it to me... i was shocked! heheh... then, "tunggu, tunggu!" again... so he went to car but again... and he brought his guitar and a paper bag... pastu he sang his version of a birthday song... so sweet! really i was in tears... of happiness k... heheh... then die bagi birthday present. it was a bracelet watch! cantik kay! alah... watch yg first look, u'd think it was a normal bracelet. look at it again, its a watch too!!! i likey like!!! then we went in coz it was only 11.30pm... huhuhuh.. ngantuk punya pasal!

next day, i was on leave! had lunch at klcc with man and petty and Mr.F then jln2 kat pyramid... shopped! it was a relaxing day... minus the part where i had to wait in the car for almost an hour!! dahlah birthday, hhmmpppfffff!!!

tujelah... my birthday... best so far in my twenties...

i havent been updating much kan... loads of work.. laptop takde kat rumah. my sister took it back to melaka. weekends are filled with weddings.. or wedding preparation stuff... adoi... penat k. im out of bajus to wear already. i have to start koreking for my old bajus that i havent worn in months.. puasa month is coming up! luckily dah ganti posa! u guys dah ganti??!!

Been tagged by a few... so this is it...

The meme is about completing at least seventeen out of the following twenty seven sentences. for every tag answered, he will contribute RM127 to this orphanage on his birthday 26th August. You will need to leave a comment in Idham's blog to inform him that you have done this tag.

Here's mine:

1. A person is only as good as his words... or so they say

2. Friendship is always good to have... no one should be alone

3. To love is to feel loved
4. Money makes me deliriously happy...

5. I miss uni days

6. My way of saying I care is by ...if i call/email/sms/talk to you... care lah tu

7. I try to spread love and happiness by going for makan - makan. Tony Romas fried mushroom is to die for!

8. Pick the flowers when there is flowers to pick.. huhuhu
9. To love someone is to sacrifice yourself to make the other happy

10. Beauty is from within

11. When I was thirteen, what I remember the most was my mum buying me bum equipment clothes for a party.. i was 13 kay!!!

12. When I was twenty one, I remember being in uni having the time of my life

13. I am most happy when im doing nothing at home with my soon-to-be hubby

14. Nothing makes me happier than having baskin robbins chocolate ice cream!!

15. If I can change one thing, I will change nothing... everything happens for a reason

16. If smiles were money then I would be filthy rich
17. Wouldn't it be nice if we could get along and play nice!
18. If you want to go shopping then you have to work your-ass-off for the moolahs!
19. Money is not everything but how lah if no money, susah wo!!

20. The most touching moments I have experienced is when my-then-bf-now-fiance proposed!

21. I smile when im happy

22. When I am happy, I do silly things and SMILE

23. If only I don't have to house chores then staying home will be more fun.
24. The best thing I did yesterday was sorted 'things' out with my fiance

25. If I ever write a book, I will give it this title "the life of keesha..."
26. One thing I must do before I die is to go for haji and belanja my parents pegi umrah

27. Doing this meme, I feel like im sorta contributing to something

i finished all... heheh

i wanna tag everyone on my list!!!

edited: idham's blog is www.bakpo.blogspot.com. sorry daaa...

i am very sleepy...

i have a hard time waking up every morning

why is that eh?

maybe its because i sleep late every night

hhmmmm....

so... last weekend was a 'wedding' weekend..

next week too...

it seems like everyone is jumping into the bandwagon...

gatal eh semua orang nak kahwin.. huhuhu...

anyway... congratulations are in order ... to:-

nora and fizal

odie and tarmezee

jua and iz (i think...)

and my darling cousin who just got engaged on 07.07.07

lishie and shimi!

congratulations darling!!!

i watched 'transformers' last last weekend!

it was fabulous!!! i was literally sitting at the edge of my seat the whole time

well... almost... i was SOO jakun k...

megan fox is hot... when i grow up i wanna be just like her... ermm....

shiah something is the like the comellest dude ever ...

the army guy... boyfren fergie tu... sangat hot jugak!!!

omg! it was good... before the movie... i was falling asleep

start je movie... my mata terbeliak like kucing tgk lipas... heheh...

something like that... i wanna watch it again...

anyone? jomlah...

i belanja! u bayar k... ;)

i have not been that busy but its so leceh to update nowadays as mentioned before. anyways...life being engaged isnt much different than before... work is pretty much the same but somehow there's more work todo.. workload seem to be piling up... why eh? and Mr F got me a belly dancing skirt! woo hoo! now i can go to my weekly belly dancing and shake me hips and ass proudly...so syok coz got sound now... heheh

we're watching transformers tonight and dinner tony romas... yummy! jgn jeles you! and i have this new mini project im doing! i'll let u know bile dah siap... im excited already!

k lah... i'll update when i have more interesting thing happening in my mundane-routiney life.. not that im complaining... but if someone would be nice enuff to donate $$$$... life would be much MORE interesting!

muah!

today isnt a good day... certainly not a good way to start my Monday

first of all...

i couldnt wake up despite getting my daily morning call from Mr F. so in other word... i woke up late

then... lrt super slow... so i had to wait for another 30 minutes before getting on the train. nasib baik i got to seat coz i was feeling too well... being in a crowded lrt platform wasnt helping at all

then sampai klcc station... kena beli breakfast....if i dont take breakfast, i'll get gastric by lunchtime...

so by the time i reach the office i was about 15 mins late .not too late but late enough considering i wanna go to the gym today

i was suppose to submit something this morning but i couldnt coz boss #1 didnt come in and that person was calling and trying to get me,so i told my colleague to tell her i was not in the office

aiyohh... the pressure... the work was due last friday. tu pasal lah pressure... ehehe... takut actually

anyway... then boss masuk, sign and left. hhmmm... wish i could do that. and i have another paper to do ... damn!

so... thats my day so far... yg agak shi**y

and its my brother's birthday today!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BON!!

gtg byeee...

ps: google documents and spreadsheets DOES work! woohoo!!!. now i can pour out my troubles and sorrows real time... ehhe

im trying to blog via google docs and spreadsheets... lets see whether this works... or not...

just another day

its been a long while since i last blogged
its not that i dont want to..
i just cant... :(

i used to blog at the office... sshhhhh
now i cant coz the they block the access to blogger.com
so sedih k... after work... too tiring
plus i get back late
not coz of work.... heheh
coz i go to gym.. right after work.. woohoo!!!
nak slim kenalah start now.. now.. now..
i have 7 months to go... woohoo!!

anyhow.. life has been pretty much the same since the engagement
only diference is that my mom hounds me more..hehe
there is always decision to make, things to do... for the wedding
not that i mind so much.. its just that i have 7 more months to go
lame lagi kan...... i know its not ... minus the puasa and raya month
i have 5 months... hhmmm...

so... pictures are not ready as yet... at least not up to Mr Fiance's expectations
more editing to be done... to make yours truly look drop dead gorgeous
although i was perspiring so hard that day... lots of editing to do..

oklah... i need to dry my hair!
cioa!

stuck for good

hi

i am engaged

woo hoo!

alhamdullillah

will post photos real soon

muah!

Keeping A Relationship

Keeping a Relationship

It's best to wait for the one you want ...... than settle for the oneavailable.

Best to wait for the one you love than one who's around.

Best to wait for the right one because life's too short to be wasted on just someone.

An African proverb state,

"Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one
eye."

Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.

Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.

Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, his or her flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.

If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.

You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.

You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.

Neither one of you is perfect, but are you perfect for each other?

Do you bring out the best in each other?

Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship?

Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her.

You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.

If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life" you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.

Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

What keeps a relationship strong?

* communication

* intimacy

* a sense of humor

* sharing household tasks

* some getaway time without business or children

* daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note)

* sharing common goals and interests

* giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure

* giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment

* asking God to be the center of your relationship

If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty and pain replace the passion.

"As long as we have memories, yesterday remains. As long as we have hope,
tomorrow awaits. As long as we have friendship, today is beautiful."

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person.

the day i almost blew my plastic at BODY SHOP

body shop IS on sale... from 18 May to 10 June
me being a Body Shop nut... i went gila! heheh
i got to know about the sale by chance
i happened to go to KLCC suring lunch last friday...
then lalu lah depan Body Shop
mak aihh... the queue to pay was so long tht is was coming out from the shop

since my plastics (i.e. credit card) was NOT on hand... so i had to suck it in
and LALU je... damn it was difficult... but then.. with the amount in the shop
boleh pengsan k...

but i got my must-have-juice-if-i-go-to-klcc juice from JuiceWorks..
i was a happy camper until... i went back to the office
went to my colleague's place... and saw a Body Shop beg
apelagi... saya serbu ... i mean looked and asked... "u beli ape?"
and she answered... "byk benda!... barang semua murah gile... 70% off"
and at that instant i vowed that i will go to the Body Shop sale



and i did... 3 times! hehehe...

i am now a proud owner of

- pink grapefruit body scrub
- peppermint foot scrub
- all in one base No.04
- blusher No.4
- white musk too eau da parfum
- warming mineral mask
- liquid eyeliner in brown
- the toe separater thing
- glove body scrub


it may not be much... but its enuff for me for now...
im not holding my credit card so the only shopping is if i pay by cash
but... since the sale is still on until 10 june...
huhu.. mane tau bonus masuk end of this month... ahahahah *evil laugh*
i can go shopping summore! woo hoo!!!

peace y'all

my cat... coco.. the drama queen

she was sleeping with her paw over her face

so COMEL!!!

my mom brought her to vet

to get a jab

after that she was all lethargic and lembik

doctor said

she was a

Drama Queen

more photos

its me

Mr. Bf

me... at lily chalet

my foot steps

i love u too

cantik kan?

perasan lawa! woo hoo!!

snorkelhollics

our feet

reflection

us at perhentian

blerggghhhhh

im bitter...
i should go for a detox
i wanna go for a facial
i wanna go for reflexology
i wanna go for body massage

how do u tell that person that you want them to go without saying those exact words...?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

HAPPY 18TH BIRTHDAY

TO

KHAIRA

shit... my sister dah besar...

does it mean im old...

HAH!! i dont think so!!

51 things... after lunch

The 51 things
1. Your gender:

very female

2. Single?

not really

3. Want to be?

better?

4. Age?

26

5. Age you wish you were:

18

6. The color of your eyes:

very dark brown

7. Yourself:

sawo matang

8. Your Hair:

black... am gonna colour it soon!

9. Your Favorite Item:

my handphone

10. Your Favorite Drink:

water berry from JuiceIt

11. The Room You Are In:

office

12. Your Pets:

coco.. my cat!

13. What you want to be in Ten Years:

happy

14. What You're Not:

shy

15. One of Your Wish list Items:

a digital camera!

16. The Last Thing You Did:

ate chicken cheese croissant from Delifrance

17. Your Favorite Book:

any medical fiction

18. The Last Thing You Ate:

chicken cheese croissant

19. Your Life:

im blessed!

20. Your Mood:

okay

21. Favorite color:

green

22. My lover is:

bagak

23. I'm listening to:

ppl talking in the office

24. Maybe I should:

start working

25. I love:

him and family and my girls

26. My best friends are:

few

27. I don't understand:

some men

28. I miss:

Mr. Bf

29. A lot of people say:

im loud

30. The meaning of my name:

some flower somewhere

31. Love is:

good to have

32. Read the newspaper:

erm... this morning... just the headlines

33. Take walks in the rain:

with Mr. Bf... anytime

34. Drive:

not much in the past year

35. Like to drive fast?

heheh... when im alone

36. Been out of the country:

not recently

37. Been in love:

am NOW

38. Ran away from home:

no... -_-

39. Been on stage:

last thursday

40. Judged other people by their clothing:

sometimes

41. Are you trendy?

i would like to think that i am... some may not agree

42. Something that happened to you in 1995?

started sekolah menengah

43. Last thing you said aloud?

"okay.. im going now. bye"

44. What colour is your toothbrush?

pink

45. Last thing you bought?

chicken cheese croissant and mini chocolate pastries from Delifrance

46. Best ice cream flavour?

chocolate from Baskin Robbins

47. Last person you hugged?

Mr. Bf

48. Do you talk a lot?

yes...

49. Is laughter the best medicine?

yes IT IS!

50. Do you prefer giving smiles or getting them?

giving

51. Do you admit when are wrong?

sometimes... heheh

perhentian part 1

some scenic view taken by Mr Bf...